珍惜身边吃醋的人

请好好的珍惜你身边为了一点小事而吃醋生气的人吧，因为你拥有着这样的深深爱着你的人是--------幸福.相爱的男女朋友，对方的一举一动都细细的看在眼里，会胡思乱想很正常的，所以，当你有了男（女）朋友之后，请对其他异性保持一定距离.这是为什么呢？

1：情人心里面容不下一粒沙子，哪怕是很小很小.真正爱你的人是容不下你和异性单独聊天或单独出去的，如果他(她)对此没有反应，请不要高兴，这是因为他 (她)可能已经不爱你了，不太在意你了，亦或是你们的感情已成为一种习惯，没有你好像不行，但有了你却觉得平淡.所以对你听之放之，同时也是为自己开拓空间.这时还是爱情吗？你当然清楚.当然，也的确有这种人，那就恭喜你有了自由的爱情，但同情你同时失去了深刻的爱情.

2：你为什么要有异性知已呢？真的仅仅是单纯好朋友吗？请你不要再骗自己了.那么多异性为你为什么只和他（她）呢？是因为你们彼此喜欢.就算不多，也有一点点对吧？不喜欢怎么会成知己呢？如果是你曾经的男女朋友，情况则更加严重，因为你们曾经深深的相爱过！或许你对异性知已没有真正的爱情，但是如果你站在另一半的角度去想一下，另一半怎么会容许你和你喜欢的异性单独出去或彼此袒露心扉呢？毕竟你和你现在的男女朋友，当初也是从彼此喜欢发展而来在一起的啊. 既然决定与一个人相爱，就不要给自己留下潜在的情感出轨机会.

3：为什么要珍惜男（女）朋友？因为对方很爱你，会甘心情愿为你做很多事，很多普通朋友不会帮你做的事你的男（女）朋友都会为你去做.既然如此，你怎么忍心再去拥有他（她）介意的异性知已呢？甚至还要告诉大家我和异性知己是多么的契合投缘.这真的是很过分，每天和你在一起的人是谁？是你的男女朋友！在一起的时间久所以矛盾才会多，所以你才会偶尔产生厌烦情绪需要另找排解通道，你拿一位偶尔见面的人和每天在身边的人来做比较是多么不公平的啊！
人，对于在自己身边的人往往都不懂得珍惜，却去喜欢没有结果的人.等到失去了最值得珍惜的人，却又往往会后悔莫及.好好的去珍惜你身边那位会约束你，会吃你醋的人吧！不要觉得他（她）不讲道理，因为要讲理，那就做普通朋友好了，普通朋友不会约束你，并且永远都会尽量顺着你，讲好听的给你.
相爱的情人任何的吵闹，嫉妒，猜忌，孩子气，都是合理正常的.因为他（她）重视你，重视你们之间的一切，才会情感敏感而强烈.如果现在的你，正因为你的男（女）朋友无理取闹而生气，请拿起电话打给他（她）吧！！因为换个角度想一想你也......还不如大家好好珍惜对方，快快乐乐过每一天！

Silver Award...

is almost been 10 days staying in this place...
is like a jail life to me...
cant get out from this place...
eating the same food every day...

sometimes feel hate this place very much...
feel like all the effort i putting in is all fruitless...
feel like gain nothing from this place except complain and the unfair work load...
feel like this place is treating me unfair...

but today i receive a msg from my AM while i taking my rest time...
she wrote : congrats, u have a CDP award...
on that moment i was thinking is she kidding me...
or just wan me to show my face that represent my department for the ceremony...
but she tel me i got a silver award...
i knew i wil get this award on sept coz i get enuf compliment letter...
but i had waited for 2 months stil no sound from the management...
so i tot my award was hopeless d...
but the award not oli come to me...

thank you Shangri La Singapore...
this award make me feel im stil one of the Shangri La member...
i tot "u" had abundant me for a long time...

i try my best to get 2 more silver then gold then diamond...
if im stil there...

My cutie baby...

last sunday i drive my baby to johor for eat, walk n play...
we went to desaru and stop by croc farm n ostrich farm...

there is 1 thing that make me happy all the way i drive to our destinations...
that was my dearest baby can sleep any moment she want to...
i noe my baby is tired for work for the last week...
and she also did not have her full sleep for the whole week...

along the way to our destination...
my baby was sleep and awake for many times...
i told her to sleep or have a nap if she want to...
coz i noe she was tired...
but she she told me dun wan me to drive alone...
and keep on awake after she fall into sleep...
which i was very happy...
every time i look at my baby fall into sleep...
then something happy feeling come to my heart that make me smile while driving...
my baby was adorable and so cute when she fall into sleep...

when v reach to desaru beach ostrich farm...
my baby seem like bek to childhood....
which she smiling so sweet when playing at the sea shore and feeding the ostrich...
and i also dun wan miss the opportunity to miss the chance to take her sweetest smile...
her smile are so natural and so sweet...
is unforgettable in my life...
when i took the photo, i was thinking she was so perfect to me...
my baby wan me to delete some of her ugly photo...
but i tel her k not delete coz that was her natural and sweetest smile...
i wan to keep that for the rest of my life...
coz when i grow old i can c bek these photo...
to remind bek the old time v spend together...

my dearest baby...
your smile make my days...
i love you...

Future life...

recently struggling for my future life...
planning how to achieve my future life...
taking my action to achieve my future life...

thinking how much i should spend on my every detail that i need...
how much money to spend on my wedding...
how much money to give to my parent...
how much money to give to my baby/future wife...
how much money to spend on my car...
how much money to spend on my house...
how much money to own used...
how much money to save for myself...

hope can achieve all this in the coming 3 to 4 years time...
can i do that??? i questioning myself...

my Fe3ling...

many thing wan to say...
but dun noe how to start...
maybe is better to keep in heart...
will less come over here to release my feeling d...

An unusual weeks...

is me again...
feel like got many thing wan to share over here...

is been 1 more week after i update my previous post...
things seem like nothing change...
i'm stil thinking a lot of things...

mature...
wat is mature to me???
mature contain of wat???
wat is mature moves???
wat consider mature???
how to be come mature???

sometimes i realli wan to ask "mature" how i can meet u...
where to meet u Mr "mature"...
i wan to talk to u Mr "mature"...
i got so many question wan to ask u Mr "mature"...

looking my blog now make me feel i unmature again....
i got so many thing about my feeling wan to tel u...
but i just sked to tel u wat i feel now...
i just like an Ostrich that hide my head into ground...
even some time i cry alone without letting u noe...
crying...unmature right...
but i reali sad...thats y i drop my tear...

u noe how bad the feeling to me???
i wonder how u feel to me???
i doing my best to make u happy....
but wat u respone to me is just cold to me...
feel like wat i doing is very unnecessary...
ur respone to me is very cold...
i not blame u...i realli realli not blame u...
i wan to make u happy...

u grow up all the way u come through...
becoming more mature...
becoming more stronger...
becoming more independable...
but i feel like i stil standing at the starting point...
still the same place....
but i won't give up to chace after u...
i will not stop and let u go...
i will use up my full power to chase behind u...
soon, i will reach to u and v can move on together....

累。。。

才刚过完我十四天的假期。。。
也刚开始工作一个星期。。。
我就觉得累了。。。

这种累不是肢体上的累。。。
是身心的累，思想的累。。。
这种累是我重来没体验过的。。。

这种累搞得我无精打采。。。
这种累搞得我没有精神。。。
这种累搞得我没有胃口。。。
这种累也搞得我胡思乱想。。。

虽说过了十四天的假期。。。
但是好像根本没好好的休息。。。
突发事情发生，搞得我两个星期乱七八糟。。。
事情好转了，但是心还是七上八下。。。
连续两个星期没开口大笑了。。。
心情直插谷底，很难过，心很闷。。。
感觉好像生活开始转变了。。。
不再像以前的那么轻松了。。。
我不喜欢现在这种感觉。。。

我真的是很累很累了。。。
我不想再想东西了。。。
我现在的心情是非常非常的难过。。。
有谁可以了解我现在的心情呢？？
有谁现在是和我的心情一样呢？？

刘洧銓。。。你累了。。。

10 days...

continue working for 11 days...
10 days continuously in house...
feel tired and miss dear...

finally finish my in house duty...
taking care a few VVIP...
received a good comment from them also...
lucky nothing happen between this 10 days...
work very smooth and peacefully...

learned a lot of new skill in this 10 days...
learned how to be the in house butler...
learned how to take care the VVIP...

collected a few tips also...
plan to buy myself a new hp...
planning to buy either Nokia E72 or Iphone 4...
planning to buy myself a POLICE watches also...
feel like got many things to buy...

after 10days in house my off day fall on this weekend...
will go johor relax wit my dear on this saturday...
since so many days din accompany my dear...
then go sing K wit my dear at johor...
as redemption for 10days din accompany her...

missed the gathering wit andy,bj,ming soon and my dear...
will held another gathering soon to meet them up...
jee if u read this please come to sg...
coz we going to have another gathering at sg also...^^

lastly....
hapi early father day to my dad...

爸，妈。。。辛苦你们了。。。

已有三个月没回家了。。。
想念家里的两老。。。
想念家里的欢笑。。。
想念家里的乱七八遭。。。

趁着假期就决定回家见我的两老。。。
家里还是一样的乱七八糟。。。
兄妹们还是一样打打闹闹。。。
两老还是一样的可爱。。。

不一样的是。。。
老爹走路没在一拐一拐了。。。
因为动过了手术。。。
痛了一整年，拐了一整年。。。
是时候了结了它。。。
老爹的头边也长满了白发。。。
感觉上他老了许多。。。
可能是刚动过了手术。。。
老爹现在都有一点消瘦了。。。
老妈还是一样的可爱。。。
一样的矮矮圆圆。。。

这次回来。。。
吃过了“大团圆”饭。。。
庆祝迟来的母亲节和我老爹的生日。。。
由于现在出来“找吃”了。。。
所以就“豪气”地请大家吃饭。。。
虽然开销有点超出预算。。。
但是吃的开心就好了。。。

老爹老妈。。。
辛苦你们了。。。

励志篇。。。

最近都迷上了一首天王的老歌。。。
感觉上还蛮励志一下。。。
歌名是“强“。。。

强-郭富城
需跨多少个山漫漫长路与海
方可真正觅到心里精彩
需经多少次哀几多的障碍赛
才胜利会换来
不知几番跌倒旁人斜视喝采
很不好过但我冲剌不改
只因心中记紧当天可敬父亲
说信我会精彩
强人是你能飞天遁地
其实你了不起
假使你永不说不能做到
强人是你能顶天立地
如败倒再挣起
永没言死才是活着的真理
需跨多少个山漫漫长路与海
方可真正觅到心里精彩
需经多少次哀几多的障碍赛
才胜利会换来
不知几番跌倒旁人斜视喝采
很不好过但我冲剌不改
只因心中记紧当天可敬父亲
说信我会精彩
强人是你能飞天遁地
其实你了不起
假使你永不说不能做到
强人是你能顶天立地
如败倒再挣起
永没言死才是活着的真理
曾垂头万次仍抬头又次
再战再创这生意义
毋忘慈父那从前留下句子:
强人是你能飞天遁地
其实你了不起
假使你永不说不能做到
强人是你能顶天立地
如败倒再挣起
永没言死才是活着的真理


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永不言败。。。不管身边有多少人喝倒彩。。。
还是坚持的冲刺。。。坚持自己的信念。。。

希望这首歌可以献给情绪低落的人。。。
献给一些需要鼓励的人。。。
还有献给我这个刚出来社会工作的人。。。

加油。。。

Hypnotize...

1st week of working...
been through few different department...
learning the way they working and serving...
knew a lot experienced colleague...
everyone told me the same thing about their working experienced in hotel industry...

in service industry...
must be willing to help people...
must be willing to fulfill what the guests wants and needs...
must be done without expecting any payment...
must be always smile to the guests...
*there are stil alot but i forget...

one of my colleague told me...
when u come to the front line...
must be a good actor...
because u must act to be smile to the guests even you are unhappy...
must act willing to help even the guests requests are ridiculous out of their mind...
if you can manage well then u can survive in service industry...

the staff continue told me...
if u keep on complaining about ur job,guests for their requests or their temper...
then u will are not fit in this industry...
because if u complaining the guests at behind then u will be not served them by 100%...
the guests might complain about ur service and u might end up with unemployment...
because the guests are pay their money so they are deserve to get the good service rather than seeing your "fucking bad ass mood" faced to the guests...

1 of my friend which she love to complain her job or her customer in facebook...
from the way i saw she released her feeling and complaining about her job in facebook...
and im thinking why don't she just resign from her job or just quit the job...
and why until now she still working under her "suck" company...
just quite job and enough for me to see she complaining about her job...
if u have guts...just quit the job...
don't talk bullshit in facebook...

so from now on...
i choose to love my job, my duties, my guests and my boss rather than hating them...
i must hypnotize myself to love my work and my duties and everything in my company...
the guests are my "boss"...
they pay my salary...

最近。。。

最近。。。
不是李圣杰的最近。。。

最近的我还变得蛮暴躁。。。
最近的我还变得蛮喜欢complain。。。
最近的我好像对任何事都有意见。。。

例如。。。
最近常在电视上看台湾的新闻。。。
可能是新闻播放的时间很长。。。
主播都不懂要报道些什么。。。
所以他们常常都会报一些芝麻绿豆的小事。。。
就好象前阵子网民说马总统的领带绑的过长，有辱形象。。。
这也播报出来。。。
我就觉得有时间去报这些小事不如保一些更有意义的新闻。。。
真是猜不透台湾人的想法。。。

还有。。。
最近传阿雅好像要离开我猜了。。。
虽然我对这节目已经没兴趣了。。。
但是知道这个消息还蛮惊讶的。。。
因为她是那节目的老臣子。。。
离开的原因好像是收视率的下滑。。。
以前蝴蝶还是主持的时候我有时都会去看下节目。。。
一当换了巨乳遥遥，直接可以叠埋心水从此不看了。。。
想下，本节目根本就是为台湾的宅男播的嘛。。。
节目越来越不好看，环节也越来越为宅男准备。。。
我猜少了宅男应该会变成历史了吧。。。
真是想不透维忠哥在想什么。。。

最后。。。
马国。。。
不知什么时候开始。。。
在填表格的时候，国籍那格。。。
开始有点不想写“马国民”（in english)。。。
interview的时候还有点不想讲“我是马国人”。。。
我有时也会觉得我是走狗，卖国贼。。。
但是马国越来越离谱。。。
虽说是“一个马国”。。。但是还是一样偏护马猪。。。
连副首相都经常爆料“一个马国”还是以马猪为主。。。
他说：马猪为马猪争取更好的福利有错吗？？？
只有你们要福利。。。那其它宗族不需要更好的福利吗？？？
最近在面子书看到一个短片。。。
讲述一位受高等教育的马国华裔女生。。。
她抛弃了马国，到香港去工作。。。
她说再现阶段她不会想会祖国。。。
除非所有人都有公平的对待。。。
现在很难解释。。。还是你们自己看吧。。。

*请留意报道员说的每一句话还有那马猪的话。。。

我还真的有点宗族歧视。。。
本人只对马猪不满。。。不伤其他宗族。。。

礼貌。。。

刚在网上见到一篇文章。。。
诉说一为孕妇上巴士，没人肯让位。。。
当时巴士上没什么拥挤，所以所有人都能清楚的看见那为孕妇。。。
可是就是没人肯让为给这位孕妇。。。
士机先生留意了很久都没人肯让位子给这位孕妇。。。
于是一气之下就把巴士停到一旁，自己就下车了。。。
乘客好奇的问士机为什么停车。。。
士机生气的说：你们都不肯让位给那为孕妇，那就我让位子给她坐吧。。。
乘客们羞耻的羞耻，惭愧的惭愧。。。
有的还立刻下车乘搭别的巴士。

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我现在人在某国，就真正亲身体会过这种状况。。。
体会到人情冷暖，体会到一己的自私而忽略了身边发生的事情。。。
这边的人读那么多书难道都是白读的吗？
难道这边的人没读道德或者不懂得敬老吗？
真的很想挖开他们的心，看是不是铁做的还是他们跟本没有心。。。
一个人不懂的礼貌、敬老，就算他再有钱，再有成就也都不会受到人家的尊敬。

Graduation day...

is waiting this day for half year...
is waiting this day to meet again LJMU student...
is waiting this day to meet again the Europe trip member...

that day...i think is my last graduation ceremony in my life...
that day...is the end of my 22 study life...
that day...is also a the day to begin my working life...

on this day...i was surprise by my Darling...
before this day i had reserve a extra ticket for my dear...
and i was hoping she can attend my big day...
but on the week before my big day she told me she was unable to attend on that day...
i feel quite sad when i heard this...

but on that that...
she was suddenly appear in front me after the ceremony...
she was secretly come bek from singapore and giving me a big surprise...
although "something" happen between this...
but i was very happy that my Darling can attend on that day...
to see i wear "square hat"...

thank you to my parent...
they had support me for my whole study expenses...
i will not wasted ur money for my education...
i will prove to my parent that the money had been spent in my education is worthy...

thank you to my Darling...
thank you for attend my convocation...
thank you for supporting me at behind...
i love you...

thank you to my buddies...
thanks to wai kit, charis, sunny, and jaston...
thanks for the big surprise...
thanks for giving me this unforgetable big day...
thanks for the flower and doll...
and thanks for attend my convo...

bad mood..

21 Jan 2010...
dun noe y today got many thing happen on me...

10.30 am phone rang...
wake up by my bro and ask me not to on9...
coz something wrong with the internet explorer...
but even there is nothing wring with the explorer i also can on9...
this line in this 2 day very sucks...cant even log in msn...
so giv up to on9...

3 - 7pm...
coz cant on9 then have a afternoon sleep...

7 - 8pm...
phone rang...
again wake up by my bro...
call me go saloon have hair cut...
in the same time i did not realize that my hp have new msg...
when i at saloon oli i realize my dear had sms me...
she was sms me in the afternoon where i stil in my dream...
i din reply my dear msg coz i dun wan reply during hair cut...
coz the stylist might c wat i write in msg...
then after finish...
my dear sms me agian while i was paying the money for my hair cut...
my dear was upset coz i din reply her msg in the afternoon...
then i reply and explain to her y i din reply her msg...
but she was sad...
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dear...
im here to explain agian...
i noe dear gan jiong me...
wan to noe wat am i doing and where am i on that time...
but during that time my hp was at downstair...
when the phone rang my sis oli wake me up and answer the call...
after call i was very blur and rushing to the saloon to meet my bro...
then at the saloon i oli realize i got msg from dear...
im not purposely not to reply dear de msg de...
i also understand dear gan jiong me...

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although now wat i do also k not redeem wat i have done to dear...
but dear im here to apologize again...
dear pls forgive me...