Tuesday, November 30, 2010

珍惜身边吃醋的人

请好好的珍惜你身边为了一点小事而吃醋生气的人吧,因为你拥有着这样的深深爱着你的人是--------幸福.相爱的男女朋友,对方的一举一动都细细的看在眼里,会胡思乱想很正常的,所以,当你有了男(女)朋友之后,请对其他异性保持一定距离.这是为什么呢?

1:情人心里面容不下一粒沙子,哪怕是很小很小.真正爱你的人是容不下你和异性单独聊天或单独出去的,如果他(她)对此没有反应,请不要高兴,这是因为他 (她)可能已经不爱你了,不太在意你了,亦或是你们的感情已成为一种习惯,没有你好像不行,但有了你却觉得平淡.所以对你听之放之,同时也是为自己开拓空间.这时还是爱情吗?你当然清楚.当然,也的确有这种人,那就恭喜你有了自由的爱情,但同情你同时失去了深刻的爱情.

2:你为什么要有异性知已呢?真的仅仅是单纯好朋友吗?请你不要再骗自己了.那么多异性为你为什么只和他(她)呢?是因为你们彼此喜欢.就算不多,也有一点点对吧?不喜欢怎么会成知己呢?如果是你曾经的男女朋友,情况则更加严重,因为你们曾经深深的相爱过!或许你对异性知已没有真正的爱情,但是如果你站在另一半的角度去想一下,另一半怎么会容许你和你喜欢的异性单独出去或彼此袒露心扉呢?毕竟你和你现在的男女朋友,当初也是从彼此喜欢发展而来在一起的啊. 既然决定与一个人相爱,就不要给自己留下潜在的情感出轨机会.

3:为什么要珍惜男(女)朋友?因为对方很爱你,会甘心情愿为你做很多事,很多普通朋友不会帮你做的事你的男(女)朋友都会为你去做.既然如此,你怎么忍心再去拥有他(她)介意的异性知已呢?甚至还要告诉大家我和异性知己是多么的契合投缘.这真的是很过分,每天和你在一起的人是谁?是你的男女朋友!在一起的时间久所以矛盾才会多,所以你才会偶尔产生厌烦情绪需要另找排解通道,你拿一位偶尔见面的人和每天在身边的人来做比较是多么不公平的啊!
人,对于在自己身边的人往往都不懂得珍惜,却去喜欢没有结果的人.等到失去了最值得珍惜的人,却又往往会后悔莫及.好好的去珍惜你身边那位会约束你,会吃你醋的人吧!不要觉得他(她)不讲道理,因为要讲理,那就做普通朋友好了,普通朋友不会约束你,并且永远都会尽量顺着你,讲好听的给你.
相爱的情人任何的吵闹,嫉妒,猜忌,孩子气,都是合理正常的.因为他(她)重视你,重视你们之间的一切,才会情感敏感而强烈.如果现在的你,正因为你的男(女)朋友无理取闹而生气,请拿起电话打给他(她)吧!!因为换个角度想一想你也......还不如大家好好珍惜对方,快快乐乐过每一天!

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Silver Award...


is almost been 10 days staying in this place...
is like a jail life to me...
cant get out from this place...
eating the same food every day...

sometimes feel hate this place very much...
feel like all the effort i putting in is all fruitless...
feel like gain nothing from this place except complain and the unfair work load...
feel like this place is treating me unfair...

but today i receive a msg from my AM while i taking my rest time...
she wrote : congrats, u have a CDP award...
on that moment i was thinking is she kidding me...
or just wan me to show my face that represent my department for the ceremony...
but she tel me i got a silver award...
i knew i wil get this award on sept coz i get enuf compliment letter...
but i had waited for 2 months stil no sound from the management...
so i tot my award was hopeless d...
but the award not oli come to me...

thank you Shangri La Singapore...
this award make me feel im stil one of the Shangri La member...
i tot "u" had abundant me for a long time...

i try my best to get 2 more silver then gold then diamond...
if im stil there...

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

My cutie baby...


last sunday i drive my baby to johor for eat, walk n play...
we went to desaru and stop by croc farm n ostrich farm...

there is 1 thing that make me happy all the way i drive to our destinations...
that was my dearest baby can sleep any moment she want to...
i noe my baby is tired for work for the last week...
and she also did not have her full sleep for the whole week...

along the way to our destination...
my baby was sleep and awake for many times...
i told her to sleep or have a nap if she want to...
coz i noe she was tired...
but she she told me dun wan me to drive alone...
and keep on awake after she fall into sleep...
which i was very happy...
every time i look at my baby fall into sleep...
then something happy feeling come to my heart that make me smile while driving...
my baby was adorable and so cute when she fall into sleep...

when v reach to desaru beach ostrich farm...
my baby seem like bek to childhood....
which she smiling so sweet when playing at the sea shore and feeding the ostrich...
and i also dun wan miss the opportunity to miss the chance to take her sweetest smile...
her smile are so natural and so sweet...
is unforgettable in my life...
when i took the photo, i was thinking she was so perfect to me...
my baby wan me to delete some of her ugly photo...
but i tel her k not delete coz that was her natural and sweetest smile...
i wan to keep that for the rest of my life...
coz when i grow old i can c bek these photo...
to remind bek the old time v spend together...

my dearest baby...
your smile make my days...
i love you...

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Future life...

recently struggling for my future life...
planning how to achieve my future life...
taking my action to achieve my future life...

thinking how much i should spend on my every detail that i need...
how much money to spend on my wedding...
how much money to give to my parent...
how much money to give to my baby/future wife...
how much money to spend on my car...
how much money to spend on my house...
how much money to own used...
how much money to save for myself...

hope can achieve all this in the coming 3 to 4 years time...
can i do that??? i questioning myself...

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

my Fe3ling...

many thing wan to say...
but dun noe how to start...
maybe is better to keep in heart...
will less come over here to release my feeling d...

Thursday, July 8, 2010

An unusual weeks...

is me again...
feel like got many thing wan to share over here...

is been 1 more week after i update my previous post...
things seem like nothing change...
i'm stil thinking a lot of things...

mature...
wat is mature to me???
mature contain of wat???
wat is mature moves???
wat consider mature???
how to be come mature???

sometimes i realli wan to ask "mature" how i can meet u...
where to meet u Mr "mature"...
i wan to talk to u Mr "mature"...
i got so many question wan to ask u Mr "mature"...

looking my blog now make me feel i unmature again....
i got so many thing about my feeling wan to tel u...
but i just sked to tel u wat i feel now...
i just like an Ostrich that hide my head into ground...
even some time i cry alone without letting u noe...
crying...unmature right...
but i reali sad...thats y i drop my tear...

u noe how bad the feeling to me???
i wonder how u feel to me???
i doing my best to make u happy....
but wat u respone to me is just cold to me...
feel like wat i doing is very unnecessary...
ur respone to me is very cold...
i not blame u...i realli realli not blame u...
i wan to make u happy...

u grow up all the way u come through...
becoming more mature...
becoming more stronger...
becoming more independable...
but i feel like i stil standing at the starting point...
still the same place....
but i won't give up to chace after u...
i will not stop and let u go...
i will use up my full power to chase behind u...
soon, i will reach to u and v can move on together....

Thursday, July 1, 2010

累。。。

才刚过完我十四天的假期。。。
也刚开始工作一个星期。。。
我就觉得累了。。。

这种累不是肢体上的累。。。
是身心的累,思想的累。。。
这种累是我重来没体验过的。。。

这种累搞得我无精打采。。。
这种累搞得我没有精神。。。
这种累搞得我没有胃口。。。
这种累也搞得我胡思乱想。。。

虽说过了十四天的假期。。。
但是好像根本没好好的休息。。。
突发事情发生,搞得我两个星期乱七八糟。。。
事情好转了,但是心还是七上八下。。。
连续两个星期没开口大笑了。。。
心情直插谷底,很难过,心很闷。。。
感觉好像生活开始转变了。。。
不再像以前的那么轻松了。。。
我不喜欢现在这种感觉。。。

我真的是很累很累了。。。
我不想再想东西了。。。
我现在的心情是非常非常的难过。。。
有谁可以了解我现在的心情呢??
有谁现在是和我的心情一样呢??

刘洧銓。。。你累了。。。